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dbrigham
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I read Neal Pollack's blog regularly because I think he's funny and because a lot of what his 5-year-old son is going through is similar to what my 6-year-old boy is up to.

This week he posted about chaperoning his son's kindergarten class to a Dodgers game (now THAT'S a field trip! I joined my son's class to the Harvard Museum of Natural Science a few weeks ago and would've fallen asleep if I wasn't lugging my daughter in her stroller up and down three flights of stairs for two hours) and how a lot of the boys and girls seem to have "paired off" at this early age (http://tinyurl.com/4yz6rw).

My wife has observed that one boy and girl in our son's kindergarten class seem to be pretty close. I'm just curious if this phenomenon of 5 and 6 year olds becoming "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" is an anomaly of La La Land or do people see this happening in the real world? I sure don't notice it with my son, although he certainly has girls he plays with and likes.

Full disclosure: I was married at a young age -- 5. My older brother and sister got together with the older sisters of the girl across the street, who was also 5, and "married" us for fun. Technically we're still married, since she moved away before we could get divorced. Oh, Christ, I'm a polygamist!




BackpackingDad
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I had a girlfriend at 6.

And I can remember having crushes back then. Not at 5 though. I think I only cared about Star Wars at 5. And at 25.

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Young love

When my oldest son was in preschool (he's now 8), he showed up at the breakfast table wearing slacks, a dress shirt, and a vest. This was surprising since he never wears anything like that, AND I'd always helped him pick out his clothes.

After asking "What's the special occasion," he hemmed and hawed for a couple of minutes and then finally told me he was going to ask a girl in his preschool for her hand in marriage. It as the cutest thing. This, of course, is one of the best times in the world to keep a straight face. I did.

We picked a few flowers from the garden, and he went to school and asked her. She said yes. They're married, I guess, even though they never kissed or held hands. They just got married.

As a follow-up, now that he is going in the third grade, all girls have cooties and he covers his face every time he sees a kiss on a movie. "Yuck!"



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the "k" in pre-k stood for "kiss"

I played kissing games when I was in kindergarten. I would've thought it was a false memory, but then I heard a recording of a parent-teacher meeting from that time. My jaw dropped when I heard the teacher explaining to the parents about the "kissing games". It really happened. Cool!

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paddyrat
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that explains alot

Colin had chronic chapped lips way into Junior High...

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It happens.I had a

It happens.
I had a girlfriend in 1st grade, she moved away and later returned in 8th grade. Wanted nothing to do with me since I became a nerd. Her loss. Now I find one of my youngest was going to get married to the neighbor boy and she dated another all before 2nd grade. I'm sure she has kissed one or two of them. Grrrrrr.
As for all the field trips that I've been on, I have never seen them pair off. But they always give me my daughter and friend plus the boy that difficult to handle and his friend. Don't know why they do that all the time and never have a problem.



AlwaysHomeandUncool
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I now pronounce you toddler and toddlerette ...

I remember talking about who were were going to marry and so on in kidergarten. There were crushes, etc. But we never went beyond third base ...

My kids have "girlfriends" and "boyfriends" out here on the East Coast. I think it is pretty normal.

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