Obviously, John Hagee was not telling his congregation the truth about stay at home Dads. It's a different kind of work, that is all. And, none of them, are going to hell. Period. They are a hard working men. 150,000 hard working men in the United States, and who knows how many in other different countries.
What are your post stay at home dad plans? College? Work? Even if you are looking a few years out.