Hey Guys,
I really like reading everyone's posts on all subjects. Just want to ask a question and I hope I'm not crossing the line here. I'm looking to spice things up in the bedroom, it's been pretty boring to say the least and the frequency is way down. I've bought my wife a vibrator for Christmas and was just wondering if anybody else uses one with their wife in the bedroom. Thanks for all your answers.
Yes, my wife and I use various toys once in a while in the bedroom to help spice up the bedroom. Both electronic and non electronic toys to help out. Additionally my wife has vouyer tendancies and for that reason likes some adult themed movies. We recently purchased movies and I obtained a new electronic toy for our anniversary as well. Plus I purchased some lingerie for her birthday and gave the lingerie in addition to additiona gifts that I gave her for her birthday. If you would like the websites I use, please feel free to ask and take a look.
Robb
Midwest Regional Coordinator
Daddy's Home INC - The National At-Home Dad Network www.daddyshome.org
Well I mentioned to my wife that I got her this for christmas and she said she didn't want it. I figured I would tell her before she opened it for Christmas. Didn't want to ruin the holiday. So I"ll just return it. Just wish she would give it a try! Did your wife suggest such toys or did you? just wondering.
Too bad she wasn't into your awesome gift. Keep in mind... she was maybe just embarrassed. Or felt inadequate. Either way your gift may have had some effect. At least she knows you are trying. I bought my wife one too. We used it twice, then never again. Only cause I never got it out again. I think she is also embarrassed to use it. As always, it is the thought that counts.
My wife and I came from very different backgrounds. I was raised to be very open about things like this and my wife was raised that stuff like this is bad. so it took a while for her to come around. Now, one of our favorite things to do when the kids are with grandma and grandpa is just go walk around the local "toy store"
On the glass toys that I purchased, I had shown my wife and allowed her to decide what it was that she would be willing to try. The other website I had something recommended by a friend that turned out to blow my wife's mind. Maybe re-approach the subject later with her and see if by having her input may in turn create a more fun and pleasant atmosphere for you both.
Robb
Midwest Regional Coordinator
Daddy's Home INC - The National At-Home Dad Network www.daddyshome.org
I would recommend watch some xx videos to spice things up first. If those seem to help create some action. Tell her you want her and want to see if this will help get her in the mood. If she warms up to watching the movies there will be some toys used. Then introduce one after watching at least 3 movies with her. As you watch say things like, that is hot or erotic what do you think.
She is turned on within 10 minutes and then I bring out a toy. Introduce it slowly and with genuine lust for her.
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