I was always a smart kid. The expectation was that I should end up with a super job. I was never interested in that. Though I have had some high-paying jobs, I decided NOT to have a career - I did what was fun - teacher, e-learning consultant, barista, coffee roaster... my wife is the career person, with a VERY specialised education. I have ended up in Norway and fortunately I am a laguage man, so my part-time job is translator (heck, it was my part-time job even when I had a full-time job). I feel very happy and satisfied with how my life is now, but every time I talk to MY mom on Skype, there is always some kind of comment about finding more customers or getting a real job... which is really funny since my mother took a break from her career to raise 3 sons before going back to work... anyone else with this problem?
Criticism from Mom (MY mom)
Based on what you've described you are working now, and you have worked in the past. It does not matter what you do. You have a job, both of you are working. You have a real job as a translator. Do not see what the point is. Keep doing what you're doing.

I was trained to be some kind of business executive. Took all kinds of math and science courses. Heck, I almost had enough college credits from AP courses in High School to be a 2nd semester Freshman when I started college. After I was in college a while, I decided my life would be better if I enjoyed myself instead of stressed myself out to get A's. And I hated going to class at 8am. I still was willing to work hard and, after graduating college, had good paying jobs. But that never was super important to me, so when we had kids, I had no problem staying home.
I thought my parents would have a real problem with it since they encouraged me to do well in school, get a good job, etc. but they never once said a negative thing about it. They have been nothing but supportive because, to my surprise, they believed I was doing the right thing for my family. I was especially surprised by my dad who grew up dirt poor and worked extremely hard to make sure we were well provided for. He often proudly tells people that I am an at-home dad and never asks me when I'm going to start making some dough.
Al Watts, Vice-President, Daddyshome, Inc. - The National At-Home Dad Network
Joined: 2010-02-16
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