Dear Group,

I'm a single father raising a beautiful 4 year old girl myself as her mother left us 3 years ago because she didn't want to be a mother anymore.

Anyway, I devote myself to my child, and I'm a hard and disciplined worker who just had his pay cut by 50%, however I'm starting a second job in a month to subsidize my income.  Additionally, I'm seeking an evening job if I can find a good sitter.  I've been seeking secondary jobs for sometime now, and I'm often told I'm over qualified, or of course, jobs are little tight right now.

Greetings Gentlemen,

My neighbors concern me and I don't know if I should intervene for the kids sake or let it play out.

Wondering if any of the at home dads plan annual trips to theme parks, like Disneyworld,  Magic Mountain,  Disneyland, waterparks, etc. Or, other annual vacations.  Take some of the hard earned money you save and have fun with it with your family.

Wonder if any of the At Home Dads tailgate, or know people that do.  Know you probably already know, but tailgating is at NASCAR events, or football games where people barbecue in the parking lot.   Never done it.  Any tailgate barbecuers out there?

Have been posting anonymously for a while.  Do very little else on the internet except this website. Want to address why some dad would want to do it this way.  Internet Security and Privacy.  Less personal information out on the Internet the better. Should others choose to do it this way? Well, that is up to them.  It has worked for this part time AHD, who was a full time AHD. .