Ok, so last week my oldest was in the middle of middle school basketball tryouts. She made the A team last year as a seventh grader. That whole week I kept running down the girls and thinking about where she would get placed. Figured she would make the A team, but just was hoping that would happen for her. I never did make an “A” team and I guess I just wanted that for her. Well, she made it and actually had a very good season. Unfortunately, her extra playing time came because one of the other posts on the team got hurt. She took advantage of her opportunity and was awarded “the Most Improved Player” on the team. Proud moment for dad and a very reassuring feeling for her as a player.
This year, bigger stakes…8th grade basketball. LOL. There were a lot fewer girls this year and the coach, a personal friend, decided to have two teams. Again, I went through all the names and worried about how her placement would affect her mentally. I figured that by knowing her work ethic and her ability, she would make the A team again, but just didn’t know if the numbers would work in her favor. The coach delayed the posting of teams 3 extra days! I don’t know if it was harder on me or my daughter. Anyways, when that day came, I just gave it up to God and said He knows what is best for her. If the B team, great. If the A team, great.
Turns out it ended up being the best of both worlds! She was one of two players selected to play on both teams. She will gets lots of playing time on the B team and still be able to contribute on the A team. It even went further in that our friend, her coach, pulled her aside and said she wants her to step up and lead the B team! Ok, I say that to her all the time! Know what she does? She rolls her eyes at me! Know what she says when her coach says it? I am really going to step up because that team will need me!
So the moral of the story? Stop obsessing over things you can’t control, Mike! They are keeping you from thinking about things that are actually important! I don’t know why, but these posts always turn into a learning experience for me. Some people keep a journal…I just blog about it. I will keep you posted on how her season progresses. Hopefully I won’t yell at any refs.(See previous posting)